Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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You can simply walk past a girl play her off as another human being and ignore that she's hot and not think in your mind that you failed in some way.


When you've learn that there is a time for everything you tend to slow down your thoughts and concentrate on what you want or need and it shows through body language which equals PURE confidence.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Boner da Stoner

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but is that the way a male AW works? NOOOO he has to hit on every girl, and every one of them has to LOOOOOOVE him!

hehe I hope your only joking ;)
 

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No what Dimebag says makes sense.

Know that there is alot of time in life. Walk away. There are others.

It is so weird because sometimes it is easy to want every girl to like you.

But all women despite their faces vary in terms of their personality and mental stability. So you could get one hot chick, but another one would turn you down.

It is easy to be a male AW. But better to be calm and know there are tons of women out there.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bonhomme

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Yes. Good post, as long as it's not simply a rationalization for not engaging her if you really wanted to.

One should have the attitude that there's an abundance of women out there, and no one is so much more important than the others until there's a good reason for her to be.
 
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