"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You Are Now Leaving The Friend Zone

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So, this girl I've known for five years who saw me as 'just a friend' in a group, especially given I was seeing her best friend once upon a time... I asked her out one on one, she came, we kissed.

Then I get LJBF'D. I say what ev', and remove her from my phone and facebook.

She contacts me weeks later wanting to hang out. So we do. We make out. She decides she can't go further because we're just not a fit.

She contacts me weeks later wanting to hang out. De ja vue. I make out I'm busy (I am, but I could shuffle things around, but I don't) for awhile. Eventually I agree to hang.

We make out. She sends me sexually explicit texts. With pictures.

If anyone can figure out how I keep jail breaking the friend zone, let me know so I can write it down.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The friend zone doesnt exist. It's called the reject zone.

This situation is not good for you and there is not a lot you can do to change it. You can't change a girls mind after she has made a decision.
 
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Sounds like the first time she made contact after those few weeks was to see if she could still get you if she wanted to and the "not fit" thing was a ***** test to see if you would turn to a wuss n try to prove you do fit, hence she would feel good. But you said whatever, which I think was DHV hardcore. You also DHV'd on cancelling the 2nd one. She gave you no further tests and sent you those texts.Id still be "whatever" about the pics and stuff or ANYTHING she tries to do on HER terms to hook you... Let her push harder n harder n harder forever. Invest and work for your approval but make it on your terms not hers... "I.E: going to eat here tonight n then i got this movie im dying to see, you can tag along if u want"... If she says no, then again "whatever"... dont let her get you on her terms, basically.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thank for the advice. Sounds about right.

What's DHV?
 
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