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You Are Now Leaving The Friend Zone

Cabal

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So, this girl I've known for five years who saw me as 'just a friend' in a group, especially given I was seeing her best friend once upon a time... I asked her out one on one, she came, we kissed.

Then I get LJBF'D. I say what ev', and remove her from my phone and facebook.

She contacts me weeks later wanting to hang out. So we do. We make out. She decides she can't go further because we're just not a fit.

She contacts me weeks later wanting to hang out. De ja vue. I make out I'm busy (I am, but I could shuffle things around, but I don't) for awhile. Eventually I agree to hang.

We make out. She sends me sexually explicit texts. With pictures.

If anyone can figure out how I keep jail breaking the friend zone, let me know so I can write it down.
 

Ease

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The friend zone doesnt exist. It's called the reject zone.

This situation is not good for you and there is not a lot you can do to change it. You can't change a girls mind after she has made a decision.
 

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Sounds like the first time she made contact after those few weeks was to see if she could still get you if she wanted to and the "not fit" thing was a ***** test to see if you would turn to a wuss n try to prove you do fit, hence she would feel good. But you said whatever, which I think was DHV hardcore. You also DHV'd on cancelling the 2nd one. She gave you no further tests and sent you those texts.Id still be "whatever" about the pics and stuff or ANYTHING she tries to do on HER terms to hook you... Let her push harder n harder n harder forever. Invest and work for your approval but make it on your terms not hers... "I.E: going to eat here tonight n then i got this movie im dying to see, you can tag along if u want"... If she says no, then again "whatever"... dont let her get you on her terms, basically.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Cabal

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Thank for the advice. Sounds about right.

What's DHV?
 
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