"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You Are Now Leaving The Friend Zone

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So, this girl I've known for five years who saw me as 'just a friend' in a group, especially given I was seeing her best friend once upon a time... I asked her out one on one, she came, we kissed.

Then I get LJBF'D. I say what ev', and remove her from my phone and facebook.

She contacts me weeks later wanting to hang out. So we do. We make out. She decides she can't go further because we're just not a fit.

She contacts me weeks later wanting to hang out. De ja vue. I make out I'm busy (I am, but I could shuffle things around, but I don't) for awhile. Eventually I agree to hang.

We make out. She sends me sexually explicit texts. With pictures.

If anyone can figure out how I keep jail breaking the friend zone, let me know so I can write it down.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The friend zone doesnt exist. It's called the reject zone.

This situation is not good for you and there is not a lot you can do to change it. You can't change a girls mind after she has made a decision.
 
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Sounds like the first time she made contact after those few weeks was to see if she could still get you if she wanted to and the "not fit" thing was a ***** test to see if you would turn to a wuss n try to prove you do fit, hence she would feel good. But you said whatever, which I think was DHV hardcore. You also DHV'd on cancelling the 2nd one. She gave you no further tests and sent you those texts.Id still be "whatever" about the pics and stuff or ANYTHING she tries to do on HER terms to hook you... Let her push harder n harder n harder forever. Invest and work for your approval but make it on your terms not hers... "I.E: going to eat here tonight n then i got this movie im dying to see, you can tag along if u want"... If she says no, then again "whatever"... dont let her get you on her terms, basically.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thank for the advice. Sounds about right.

What's DHV?
 
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