aiight friday i was suppose to chill wit sum girl.. I told her I would call thursday and get everything set.. so i called thursday and she ain't pick up.. so I just spoke to her today and she told me why didn;t I call to chill... she said that she was mad that I didn't call her to chill... so I asked her wen is she good to chill next time.. so she said she going soemwhere today and tommorow..so i told her " well you got my number.. if you know was good holla at me" ya'll think I should of said that or what plz correct me.. thsi is how I learn for nex time.. any advice for future things can help too. or if I should just call her anythime this week and surprise her to chill. what ya'll think any advice good
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Dont call...let her...if she doesnt...phuck it.
Ace of Spades
Don Juan
I hate to be an ass, but Ebonics =/= cool in writing.
Canadianpimpology
Senior Don Juan
Lay low, let her chase.
Try to learn how to write at a 4th grade level.
Seriously though dude, what you wrote there is garbage and that's why you haven't got any real decent replies. Take the extra couple minutes to make your post comprehensible and you'd be surprised at the great tips you just may receive...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Evil-Rom
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Yo checkit out dawg yo!
What you gotta do bro is holla at this chick ya dig? Den when the smoke is hot, and da chicken is cookin you strike like the tiger!
peace out yo dawg! Brooklyn holla back! holla back!
Edit: yo, yo, yo!
What you gotta do bro is holla at this chick ya dig? Den when the smoke is hot, and da chicken is cookin you strike like the tiger!
peace out yo dawg! Brooklyn holla back! holla back!
Edit: yo, yo, yo!
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
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Youre a dumbass. Phuck it is such a complicated word
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.