"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yoo check thiss!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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aiight friday i was suppose to chill wit sum girl.. I told her I would call thursday and get everything set.. so i called thursday and she ain't pick up.. so I just spoke to her today and she told me why didn;t I call to chill... she said that she was mad that I didn't call her to chill... so I asked her wen is she good to chill next time.. so she said she going soemwhere today and tommorow..so i told her " well you got my number.. if you know was good holla at me" ya'll think I should of said that or what plz correct me.. thsi is how I learn for nex time.. any advice for future things can help too. or if I should just call her anythime this week and surprise her to chill. what ya'll think any advice good
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oakraiderz2

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Dont call...let her...if she doesnt...phuck it.
 

Ace of Spades

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I hate to be an ass, but Ebonics =/= cool in writing.
 

JoE BoXeR

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any advice for future things can help too.
Try to learn how to write at a 4th grade level.

Seriously though dude, what you wrote there is garbage and that's why you haven't got any real decent replies. Take the extra couple minutes to make your post comprehensible and you'd be surprised at the great tips you just may receive...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Evil-Rom

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Yo checkit out dawg yo!

What you gotta do bro is holla at this chick ya dig? Den when the smoke is hot, and da chicken is cookin you strike like the tiger!

peace out yo dawg! Brooklyn holla back! holla back!

Edit: yo, yo, yo!
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Dont call...let her...if she doesnt...phuck it.

Yea dat fo sho homeboy. Holla.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Yea dat fo sho homeboy. Holla.
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Youre a dumbass. Phuck it is such a complicated word:rolleyes:
 

Omega

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
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Youre a dumbass. Phuck it is such a complicated word:rolleyes:
No I was agreeing with you, and mocking the thread starter. HAHA. Chill :)
 

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so thas it

so you guys want me to just lay low and let her chase me...I don't call her or anything.. so if she doesn't call me... just F*ck it... I don't make another attempt to call her and set another date???
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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