"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yoo check thiss!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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aiight friday i was suppose to chill wit sum girl.. I told her I would call thursday and get everything set.. so i called thursday and she ain't pick up.. so I just spoke to her today and she told me why didn;t I call to chill... she said that she was mad that I didn't call her to chill... so I asked her wen is she good to chill next time.. so she said she going soemwhere today and tommorow..so i told her " well you got my number.. if you know was good holla at me" ya'll think I should of said that or what plz correct me.. thsi is how I learn for nex time.. any advice for future things can help too. or if I should just call her anythime this week and surprise her to chill. what ya'll think any advice good
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dont call...let her...if she doesnt...phuck it.
 

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I hate to be an ass, but Ebonics =/= cool in writing.
 

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any advice for future things can help too.
Try to learn how to write at a 4th grade level.

Seriously though dude, what you wrote there is garbage and that's why you haven't got any real decent replies. Take the extra couple minutes to make your post comprehensible and you'd be surprised at the great tips you just may receive...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yo checkit out dawg yo!

What you gotta do bro is holla at this chick ya dig? Den when the smoke is hot, and da chicken is cookin you strike like the tiger!

peace out yo dawg! Brooklyn holla back! holla back!

Edit: yo, yo, yo!
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Dont call...let her...if she doesnt...phuck it.

Yea dat fo sho homeboy. Holla.
 

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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Yea dat fo sho homeboy. Holla.
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Youre a dumbass. Phuck it is such a complicated word:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
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Youre a dumbass. Phuck it is such a complicated word:rolleyes:
No I was agreeing with you, and mocking the thread starter. HAHA. Chill :)
 

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so thas it

so you guys want me to just lay low and let her chase me...I don't call her or anything.. so if she doesn't call me... just F*ck it... I don't make another attempt to call her and set another date???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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