“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yo, Can we PLEASE STOP with the #'s rating system?

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

The Duke

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Julian- Its fairly obvious that you don't see value in a more analytical approach. I get what you are saying and there is some validity to it. You don't like numbers, you advise to go by "feeling", don't think so much, take a simpler approach. You don't see value in details and that is fine. You probably don't like psychology/sociology either. That's fine too, everybody is different, but just because it doesn't suit your tastes doesn't mean there isn't validity to the other side of the spectrum. There happens to be a lot of highly rational/analytical minds that post on this forum so you are going to see what you are seeing. You might try accepting that and use it to enrich your own understanding. A big part of personal growth is learning to accept others for what they offer, not asking them to stop because of what you don't like about them. Many times its those that you despise that end up teaching you the most.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I personally prefer the HB number rating system over posters actually providing pictures as it gives the forum a better mental imagery of what the HB really looks like. You know since pictures are taken by HB's using filters, those dog face mask cartoons, angles, makeup, camouflage clothing and whatnot.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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lmfao Yes Guru,......you have caused me mental discomfort many times.
Hated Guru?? Ya, like I couldn't figure that one out ;)


Solomon said:
What's the difference between an 8 and a 9
guru1000 said:
About 5x the entitlement, and 10x the narcissism.
Building on this:

The simple law of supply and demand shows that 9s appear almost 5-10x less frequently than 8s, dependent on location.

More demand, less supply, drives the market's value higher. We are comparing an 8 who gets approached maybe a few times a day to a 9 who gets approached everywhere, offered modeling jobs, worshipped, stalked, and has already dated some high-profile men. Very different conditioning, experiences, and motivations between 8s and 9s indeed. Ratings are just one descriptive technique among many to qualify a scenario.
 
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I have said on here many times that my grading scale is fvckable and not fvckable.
Agree.

I think guys only care about:

- weight
- age
- normal looking (no physical defects)

Anything else guys would have sex with in 11 seconds. All the other stuff: she's bitchy, she's annoying, she's has too many orbiters, etc, are ridiculous excuses. There is no way any red blooded male in 2017 in North America, especially on here, would pass up sex with any average looking girl.
 

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Great topic, OP! I have to say I totally agree.

I propose a new system (though one is really not needed but here it is):

Hot

Not Hot

Bangable

Simple and brings context, in my opinion.

She's Hot.

She's definitely Bangable.

She's Not Hot. (But I'm banging her for the moment)
 

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Trump age plays in. Self respect increases libido decreases. Even 10 years ago I could put up with just about anything to bang an attractive girl. Can't be bothered l
Placating or reframing a b1tch anymore just to get the puss.
 

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I really don't care if people use numbers... it's a good reference for how attractive THEY think a chick is. My 9 is another dudes 5. If you don't keep this in mind I agree with the OP it's meaningless. If you are going to give advice and a guy is making an @ss of himself with a chick a guy says in a 9... well it happens, and he just needs to understand the nature of chicks. If he says he's making a fool of himself with a 5.... well you have some kind of self loathing motherfvcker than need to work on his self esteem.
 

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How about Julien Blanc's Tony Robbins impression?

If you're improving your life you're a fvcking TEN!!!!!
 

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The number measures a single dimension; namely, the appearance of objective beauty. Women in the flesh are of course 'three dimensional', but that is harder to communicate and objectify. To be attractive and desirable, which can only be experienced in the first person, a woman has to score well in at least two dimensions.
 
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