"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yo, Can we PLEASE STOP with the #'s rating system?
- Thread starter Julian
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Last night's girl was 2 π.
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This is correct.
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Julian- Its fairly obvious that you don't see value in a more analytical approach. I get what you are saying and there is some validity to it. You don't like numbers, you advise to go by "feeling", don't think so much, take a simpler approach. You don't see value in details and that is fine. You probably don't like psychology/sociology either. That's fine too, everybody is different, but just because it doesn't suit your tastes doesn't mean there isn't validity to the other side of the spectrum. There happens to be a lot of highly rational/analytical minds that post on this forum so you are going to see what you are seeing. You might try accepting that and use it to enrich your own understanding. A big part of personal growth is learning to accept others for what they offer, not asking them to stop because of what you don't like about them. Many times its those that you despise that end up teaching you the most.
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Were you referring to me?
I admit I have that effect on people."I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Solomon
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What's the difference between an 8 and a 9
and you can celebrity pics if you wish Master Teacher Guru
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About 5x the entitlement, and 10x the narcissism.
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lmfao Yes Guru,......you have caused me mental discomfort many times.Were you referring to me?
taiyuu_otoko
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weak
I personally prefer the HB number rating system over posters actually providing pictures as it gives the forum a better mental imagery of what the HB really looks like. You know since pictures are taken by HB's using filters, those dog face mask cartoons, angles, makeup, camouflage clothing and whatnot.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Hated Guru?? Ya, like I couldn't figure that one out
Solomon said:
Building on this:guru1000 said:
The simple law of supply and demand shows that 9s appear almost 5-10x less frequently than 8s, dependent on location.
More demand, less supply, drives the market's value higher. We are comparing an 8 who gets approached maybe a few times a day to a 9 who gets approached everywhere, offered modeling jobs, worshipped, stalked, and has already dated some high-profile men. Very different conditioning, experiences, and motivations between 8s and 9s indeed. Ratings are just one descriptive technique among many to qualify a scenario.
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Agree.
I think guys only care about:
- weight
- age
- normal looking (no physical defects)
Anything else guys would have sex with in 11 seconds. All the other stuff: she's bitchy, she's annoying, she's has too many orbiters, etc, are ridiculous excuses. There is no way any red blooded male in 2017 in North America, especially on here, would pass up sex with any average looking girl.
Great topic, OP! I have to say I totally agree.
I propose a new system (though one is really not needed but here it is):
Hot
Not Hot
Bangable
Simple and brings context, in my opinion.
She's Hot.
She's definitely Bangable.
She's Not Hot. (But I'm banging her for the moment)
I propose a new system (though one is really not needed but here it is):
Hot
Not Hot
Bangable
Simple and brings context, in my opinion.
She's Hot.
She's definitely Bangable.
She's Not Hot. (But I'm banging her for the moment)
Atom Smasher
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^^ THIS ^^
Trump age plays in. Self respect increases libido decreases. Even 10 years ago I could put up with just about anything to bang an attractive girl. Can't be bothered l
Placating or reframing a b1tch anymore just to get the puss.
Placating or reframing a b1tch anymore just to get the puss.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
RangerMIke
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I really don't care if people use numbers... it's a good reference for how attractive THEY think a chick is. My 9 is another dudes 5. If you don't keep this in mind I agree with the OP it's meaningless. If you are going to give advice and a guy is making an @ss of himself with a chick a guy says in a 9... well it happens, and he just needs to understand the nature of chicks. If he says he's making a fool of himself with a 5.... well you have some kind of self loathing motherfvcker than need to work on his self esteem.
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So, what you are saying is that she is irrational lol?
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ChristopherColumbus
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The number measures a single dimension; namely, the appearance of objective beauty. Women in the flesh are of course 'three dimensional', but that is harder to communicate and objectify. To be attractive and desirable, which can only be experienced in the first person, a woman has to score well in at least two dimensions.