"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
YES! the ultimate AFC
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
He tries to commit suicide by jumping off a 3 story building.. This guy is gonna have to try a bit harder than that. Try jumping off a 20 story building with a gernade in your mouth and pull the pin right before you jump.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: YES! the ultimate AFC
That sure would be an...interesting sight...Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
He tries to commit suicide by jumping off a 3 story building.. This guy is gonna have to try a bit harder than that. Try jumping off a 20 story building with a gernade in your mouth and pull the pin right before you jump.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
That music alone makes me want to choke myself to death.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
This guy can't be real. Is he real?
"The whole ordeal left me so crushed I tried jumping off a 3rd story building. Unfortunally, I survived the fall. My legs are fine."
No ****. A few friends of mine started up a backyard wrestling thing a couple years ago and did that all the time. Unless you dive head first into the ground, it's not gonna kill you. What an idiot. The image that comes to mind is a 5 year old threatning suicide by jumping off his bed, onto the floor underneath him.
"The furthest I've ever gone with a girl is socialization. We talked for about 4 months, 9 hours a day over the internet"
Wow. 9 hours a day over the internet... For 4 months.
"about 2 weeks, 30 minuts a day in person (at school)"
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"Unfortunally she had far too many guy friends. One which she liked more. she decided she wanted nothing to do with me. I hacked her email/AIM/forum accounts and everything else I could google in order to get revenge"
Despite the fact the fact that that is pathetic, he got THIS upset over a girl SOCIALIZING with another guy?
****! Don't send him here! This guy is beyond help.
"The whole ordeal left me so crushed I tried jumping off a 3rd story building. Unfortunally, I survived the fall. My legs are fine."
No ****. A few friends of mine started up a backyard wrestling thing a couple years ago and did that all the time. Unless you dive head first into the ground, it's not gonna kill you. What an idiot. The image that comes to mind is a 5 year old threatning suicide by jumping off his bed, onto the floor underneath him.
"The furthest I've ever gone with a girl is socialization. We talked for about 4 months, 9 hours a day over the internet"
Wow. 9 hours a day over the internet... For 4 months.
"about 2 weeks, 30 minuts a day in person (at school)"
...
"Unfortunally she had far too many guy friends. One which she liked more. she decided she wanted nothing to do with me. I hacked her email/AIM/forum accounts and everything else I could google in order to get revenge"
Despite the fact the fact that that is pathetic, he got THIS upset over a girl SOCIALIZING with another guy?
****! Don't send him here! This guy is beyond help.
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
What a pimp!!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
3 storeys? That's a fair way off the ground though, esp. if he's landing on concrete.
Wouldn't he have broken bones though?
Wouldn't he have broken bones though?
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Your kiddingOriginally posted by cant think of a user name
3 storeys? That's a fair way off the ground though, esp. if he's landing on concrete.
Wouldn't he have broken bones though?
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
LOL. I would sugest jumping into a frozen lake with none around. I almost did that once. But that was along tme ago and I'm now a different person.
Re: Re: YES! the ultimate AFC
This can't be real. Please god tell me it isn't real!
Bwuahahahaha at the whole thingOriginally posted by wheelin&dealin
He tries to commit suicide by jumping off a 3 story building.. This guy is gonna have to try a bit harder than that. Try jumping off a 20 story building with a gernade in your mouth and pull the pin right before you jump.
This can't be real. Please god tell me it isn't real!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.