Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
YES! the ultimate AFC
- Thread starter thebsharp
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
He tries to commit suicide by jumping off a 3 story building.. This guy is gonna have to try a bit harder than that. Try jumping off a 20 story building with a gernade in your mouth and pull the pin right before you jump.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: YES! the ultimate AFC
That sure would be an...interesting sight...Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
He tries to commit suicide by jumping off a 3 story building.. This guy is gonna have to try a bit harder than that. Try jumping off a 20 story building with a gernade in your mouth and pull the pin right before you jump.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
That music alone makes me want to choke myself to death.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
This guy can't be real. Is he real?
"The whole ordeal left me so crushed I tried jumping off a 3rd story building. Unfortunally, I survived the fall. My legs are fine."
No ****. A few friends of mine started up a backyard wrestling thing a couple years ago and did that all the time. Unless you dive head first into the ground, it's not gonna kill you. What an idiot. The image that comes to mind is a 5 year old threatning suicide by jumping off his bed, onto the floor underneath him.
"The furthest I've ever gone with a girl is socialization. We talked for about 4 months, 9 hours a day over the internet"
Wow. 9 hours a day over the internet... For 4 months.
"about 2 weeks, 30 minuts a day in person (at school)"
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"Unfortunally she had far too many guy friends. One which she liked more. she decided she wanted nothing to do with me. I hacked her email/AIM/forum accounts and everything else I could google in order to get revenge"
Despite the fact the fact that that is pathetic, he got THIS upset over a girl SOCIALIZING with another guy?
****! Don't send him here! This guy is beyond help.
"The whole ordeal left me so crushed I tried jumping off a 3rd story building. Unfortunally, I survived the fall. My legs are fine."
No ****. A few friends of mine started up a backyard wrestling thing a couple years ago and did that all the time. Unless you dive head first into the ground, it's not gonna kill you. What an idiot. The image that comes to mind is a 5 year old threatning suicide by jumping off his bed, onto the floor underneath him.
"The furthest I've ever gone with a girl is socialization. We talked for about 4 months, 9 hours a day over the internet"
Wow. 9 hours a day over the internet... For 4 months.
"about 2 weeks, 30 minuts a day in person (at school)"
...
"Unfortunally she had far too many guy friends. One which she liked more. she decided she wanted nothing to do with me. I hacked her email/AIM/forum accounts and everything else I could google in order to get revenge"
Despite the fact the fact that that is pathetic, he got THIS upset over a girl SOCIALIZING with another guy?
****! Don't send him here! This guy is beyond help.
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
What a pimp!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
3 storeys? That's a fair way off the ground though, esp. if he's landing on concrete.
Wouldn't he have broken bones though?
Wouldn't he have broken bones though?
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Your kiddingOriginally posted by cant think of a user name
3 storeys? That's a fair way off the ground though, esp. if he's landing on concrete.
Wouldn't he have broken bones though?
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
LOL. I would sugest jumping into a frozen lake with none around. I almost did that once. But that was along tme ago and I'm now a different person.
Re: Re: YES! the ultimate AFC
This can't be real. Please god tell me it isn't real!
Bwuahahahaha at the whole thingOriginally posted by wheelin&dealin
He tries to commit suicide by jumping off a 3 story building.. This guy is gonna have to try a bit harder than that. Try jumping off a 20 story building with a gernade in your mouth and pull the pin right before you jump.
This can't be real. Please god tell me it isn't real!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.