"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
YES! the ultimate AFC
- Thread starter thebsharp
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
He tries to commit suicide by jumping off a 3 story building.. This guy is gonna have to try a bit harder than that. Try jumping off a 20 story building with a gernade in your mouth and pull the pin right before you jump.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: YES! the ultimate AFC
That sure would be an...interesting sight...Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
He tries to commit suicide by jumping off a 3 story building.. This guy is gonna have to try a bit harder than that. Try jumping off a 20 story building with a gernade in your mouth and pull the pin right before you jump.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
That music alone makes me want to choke myself to death.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
This guy can't be real. Is he real?
"The whole ordeal left me so crushed I tried jumping off a 3rd story building. Unfortunally, I survived the fall. My legs are fine."
No ****. A few friends of mine started up a backyard wrestling thing a couple years ago and did that all the time. Unless you dive head first into the ground, it's not gonna kill you. What an idiot. The image that comes to mind is a 5 year old threatning suicide by jumping off his bed, onto the floor underneath him.
"The furthest I've ever gone with a girl is socialization. We talked for about 4 months, 9 hours a day over the internet"
Wow. 9 hours a day over the internet... For 4 months.
"about 2 weeks, 30 minuts a day in person (at school)"
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"Unfortunally she had far too many guy friends. One which she liked more. she decided she wanted nothing to do with me. I hacked her email/AIM/forum accounts and everything else I could google in order to get revenge"
Despite the fact the fact that that is pathetic, he got THIS upset over a girl SOCIALIZING with another guy?
****! Don't send him here! This guy is beyond help.
"The whole ordeal left me so crushed I tried jumping off a 3rd story building. Unfortunally, I survived the fall. My legs are fine."
No ****. A few friends of mine started up a backyard wrestling thing a couple years ago and did that all the time. Unless you dive head first into the ground, it's not gonna kill you. What an idiot. The image that comes to mind is a 5 year old threatning suicide by jumping off his bed, onto the floor underneath him.
"The furthest I've ever gone with a girl is socialization. We talked for about 4 months, 9 hours a day over the internet"
Wow. 9 hours a day over the internet... For 4 months.
"about 2 weeks, 30 minuts a day in person (at school)"
...
"Unfortunally she had far too many guy friends. One which she liked more. she decided she wanted nothing to do with me. I hacked her email/AIM/forum accounts and everything else I could google in order to get revenge"
Despite the fact the fact that that is pathetic, he got THIS upset over a girl SOCIALIZING with another guy?
****! Don't send him here! This guy is beyond help.
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
What a pimp!!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
3 storeys? That's a fair way off the ground though, esp. if he's landing on concrete.
Wouldn't he have broken bones though?
Wouldn't he have broken bones though?
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Your kiddingOriginally posted by cant think of a user name
3 storeys? That's a fair way off the ground though, esp. if he's landing on concrete.
Wouldn't he have broken bones though?
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
LOL. I would sugest jumping into a frozen lake with none around. I almost did that once. But that was along tme ago and I'm now a different person.
Re: Re: YES! the ultimate AFC
This can't be real. Please god tell me it isn't real!
Bwuahahahaha at the whole thingOriginally posted by wheelin&dealin
He tries to commit suicide by jumping off a 3 story building.. This guy is gonna have to try a bit harder than that. Try jumping off a 20 story building with a gernade in your mouth and pull the pin right before you jump.
This can't be real. Please god tell me it isn't real!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.