Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Why am I nexting her?? Are there bad signals here?Microfiltered said:NEXT her but remember to keep spinning those plates!
Anyways, how’s this: “You will be pleased to learn that I made it home safely" (and then add in some kind original gesture like have a good evening if that’s your style)
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
drowning and need CPR?styleman said:Why am I nexting her?? Are there bad signals here?
The reply is fine, but not really witty or ****y... may as well not send it...
I was being sarcastic. It’s just common advice given here that’s all. Anyways, yeah not really that ****y (but it is a bit) and definitely not witty but I think it would get the job done (that is keep up the IL).NEXT her but remember to keep spinning those plates!
Does it work?remotecontrol said:text her, its manners...just say im fine, thanx for caring xxx I love you so much darling xxxx lets get married
Well thats what I would do anyway
Just send her a text msg and say your all right.I was ill when I met this girl today, she said
'text me when you get home so I know you're okay'
Should I or is it a trap? If so, any witty responses..?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yes.JDA70 said:Just send her a text msg and say your all right.
I don't text msg but so I'm guessing you have to have her number to
send the msg.
Is that correct?
It's more advanced with her than this, she'd likely take that far too seriously...remotecontrol said:hahaha I was teasing you man
however I have said stuff like this many, many, many times and yes it does work. Women know your teasing but they love the idea that you had the nerve to play like this and it plants a seed.
she will probably text you back with something like
"i love you to darling, when should we set the date"
From there on youve got her on the hook EASY
people are predictable....unless she has no sense of humour.. and if she is that dull then you dont want her anyway.
i'm loving it!Francisco d'Anconia said:"Help... At home being held hostage by a Martian named Marvin. He's going to blast me unless I give him a "Uranium Q-36 Explosive Space Modulator!" Do you have one?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
styleman said:I was ill when I met this girl today, she said
'text me when you get home so I know you're okay'
Should I or is it a trap? If so, any witty responses..?
They just don't understand women. They are doing their best!DonJuan11 said:Wow this site really hates women.
Why hate?iqqi said:They just don't understand women. They are doing their best!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.