You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
yea thats good.....good body languagedotcomwill said:Yea I get this sometimes,
I look at them and grin.
Im sure there is room for improvement on my body language. Ill work on that be more confident. Either way there are still girls out there that say it even if you say it confidently. How would you respond?dav22 said:If you're getting that response then chances are you're not delivering the lines properly (you could be displaying conflicting body language/be using a poor tone of voice etc.)
Just remember that you must fully believe everything you say, if you have any doubts it'll show and they'll pick up on it.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Again they shouldn't really be saying that at all. Another problem could be the girls, they might find your ****iness intimidating and use the 'yeah sure' as a way to try and bring you to their level. With these types of girls i'd tone it down a bit so you still keep high value, but loose the intimidation factor.moto said:Im sure there is room for improvement on my body language. Ill work on that be more confident. Either way there are still girls out there that say it even if you say it confidently. How would you respond?
thats exactly what I was thinking and What I usually dodav22 said:Again they shouldn't really be saying that at all. Another problem could be the girls, they might find your ****iness intimidating and use the 'yeah sure' as a way to try and bring you to their level. With these types of girls i'd tone it down a bit so you still keep high value, but loose the intimidation factor.
But yeah, to actually answer.. i'd just give a bit of a smirk and move on. Don't try and back up what you've said or you'll come off even worse.
ok. thanks. Ill keep that in mind.Francisco d'Anconia said:Don't say things that are so incongruent to your nature that it seems ridiculous.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.