You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
yea thats good.....good body languagedotcomwill said:Yea I get this sometimes,
I look at them and grin.
Im sure there is room for improvement on my body language. Ill work on that be more confident. Either way there are still girls out there that say it even if you say it confidently. How would you respond?dav22 said:If you're getting that response then chances are you're not delivering the lines properly (you could be displaying conflicting body language/be using a poor tone of voice etc.)
Just remember that you must fully believe everything you say, if you have any doubts it'll show and they'll pick up on it.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Again they shouldn't really be saying that at all. Another problem could be the girls, they might find your ****iness intimidating and use the 'yeah sure' as a way to try and bring you to their level. With these types of girls i'd tone it down a bit so you still keep high value, but loose the intimidation factor.moto said:Im sure there is room for improvement on my body language. Ill work on that be more confident. Either way there are still girls out there that say it even if you say it confidently. How would you respond?
thats exactly what I was thinking and What I usually dodav22 said:Again they shouldn't really be saying that at all. Another problem could be the girls, they might find your ****iness intimidating and use the 'yeah sure' as a way to try and bring you to their level. With these types of girls i'd tone it down a bit so you still keep high value, but loose the intimidation factor.
But yeah, to actually answer.. i'd just give a bit of a smirk and move on. Don't try and back up what you've said or you'll come off even worse.
ok. thanks. Ill keep that in mind.Francisco d'Anconia said:Don't say things that are so incongruent to your nature that it seems ridiculous.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.