You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
yea thats good.....good body languagedotcomwill said:Yea I get this sometimes,
I look at them and grin.
Im sure there is room for improvement on my body language. Ill work on that be more confident. Either way there are still girls out there that say it even if you say it confidently. How would you respond?dav22 said:If you're getting that response then chances are you're not delivering the lines properly (you could be displaying conflicting body language/be using a poor tone of voice etc.)
Just remember that you must fully believe everything you say, if you have any doubts it'll show and they'll pick up on it.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Again they shouldn't really be saying that at all. Another problem could be the girls, they might find your ****iness intimidating and use the 'yeah sure' as a way to try and bring you to their level. With these types of girls i'd tone it down a bit so you still keep high value, but loose the intimidation factor.moto said:Im sure there is room for improvement on my body language. Ill work on that be more confident. Either way there are still girls out there that say it even if you say it confidently. How would you respond?
thats exactly what I was thinking and What I usually dodav22 said:Again they shouldn't really be saying that at all. Another problem could be the girls, they might find your ****iness intimidating and use the 'yeah sure' as a way to try and bring you to their level. With these types of girls i'd tone it down a bit so you still keep high value, but loose the intimidation factor.
But yeah, to actually answer.. i'd just give a bit of a smirk and move on. Don't try and back up what you've said or you'll come off even worse.
ok. thanks. Ill keep that in mind.Francisco d'Anconia said:Don't say things that are so incongruent to your nature that it seems ridiculous.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.