"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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****y and Funny.. would this work ?

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I was thinking about this today while in class.

I usually carry a big book on my arms. A messenger bag across my shoulder and a water bottle. I was thinking I could be talking with a girl and walking and be like, "hey can you hold this book for me for a sec" (while walking), then hand her my messenger bag and finally my bottle (or maybe not the bottle) and then keep on walking like if nothing has happened...

Any thoughts on this?

I'd think it would be gold... but I want to hear other opinions.

I'd prolly laugh my *ss off with this one..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KontrollerX

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Sounds hilarious.

I don't see a chick falling for it though unless you have tremendous conversation skills and are a master at subtlety.
 

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I think most would fall, especially if you met recently met her who would say no to a favour like this one when you just met them ?
 

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DO IT BROO!!!
You pick up the best chicks when your just having fun, not actually thinking about meeting them....
 

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****y funny is about making her laugh, not getting a laugh at her expense - Read my post "A question about ****y/funny"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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JJMcLure

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All she has to do is drop your stuff on the floor when she realizes the joke's on her and you're laughing in her face - then who is the joke on? Whether she does that is going to depend on the chick, but it's the perfect comeback.

Usually this gag is done with a piece of trash like a newspaper or an empty drinks container, so the other person has to throw it away (and you don't care what happens to it).

I mean if you find it funny, I guess it's a practical joke (at risk of completely backfiring). But as a way to build attraction? Not really.
 

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You might need to borrow Ted Bundy's trick of wearing a fake plaster cast on your arm. :D
 

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I wouldn't laugh in her face... that would mess up the "tension"... she would notice that I really didn't need the help making it ****y/Funny in my opinion
 
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