"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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****y and Funny explained...sort of

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Originally posted by setarcos:

****y and funny will come naturally because you speak your mind. You don't care about making people laugh or being funny, you only care about making yourself laugh.
Some people try and think of ways to be ****y and Funny in order to show the girl they don't care.

BUT LOOK!

Originally posted by *29*:

Some people try and think of ways to be ****y and Funny in order to show the girl they don't care.
They tried to think of ways to impress the girl by trying to show they don't care? aka memorizing C&F lines?!

Some people think that by saying C&F lines it shows the woman that they are confident, high status, etc. etc.

No no no.

Originally posted by setarcos:

You don't care about making people laugh or being funny, you only care about making yourself laugh.


You bust on a girl because YOU find it humorous. It's fun to make fun of her, that's why it's called making FUN.

Laugh....and the world laughs with you.

YOU DO AND SAY BECAUSE IT'S WHAT YOU WANT TO DO.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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When u see a french girl and she asks "Ohhhh do u speak french"

u say "Hey I cant speak it but I can do it" then smirk and the girl will laugh..then proceed to ask for her phone number

Originally posted by MacDiddy
give us a few examples my ****y and Funny friend!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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C&F is completely situational. You shouldn't memorize a bunch of "lines" and try to make them fit the situation, because you're right - they won't work. Asking people for lines is pathetic; think up your own... the first few weeks/months they might be sad and chump-ish but just as with everything else, they'll improve with constant practice until you sound like a natural.
 

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Originally posted by diablo
C&F is completely situational. You shouldn't memorize a bunch of "lines" and try to make them fit the situation, because you're right - they won't work. Asking people for lines is pathetic; think up your own... the first few weeks/months they might be sad and chump-ish but just as with everything else, they'll improve with constant practice until you sound like a natural.
Diablo's got it. Spur of the moment is always better.
 
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