"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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****y and Funny explained...sort of

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Originally posted by setarcos:

****y and funny will come naturally because you speak your mind. You don't care about making people laugh or being funny, you only care about making yourself laugh.
Some people try and think of ways to be ****y and Funny in order to show the girl they don't care.

BUT LOOK!

Originally posted by *29*:

Some people try and think of ways to be ****y and Funny in order to show the girl they don't care.
They tried to think of ways to impress the girl by trying to show they don't care? aka memorizing C&F lines?!

Some people think that by saying C&F lines it shows the woman that they are confident, high status, etc. etc.

No no no.

Originally posted by setarcos:

You don't care about making people laugh or being funny, you only care about making yourself laugh.


You bust on a girl because YOU find it humorous. It's fun to make fun of her, that's why it's called making FUN.

Laugh....and the world laughs with you.

YOU DO AND SAY BECAUSE IT'S WHAT YOU WANT TO DO.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When u see a french girl and she asks "Ohhhh do u speak french"

u say "Hey I cant speak it but I can do it" then smirk and the girl will laugh..then proceed to ask for her phone number

Originally posted by MacDiddy
give us a few examples my ****y and Funny friend!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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C&F is completely situational. You shouldn't memorize a bunch of "lines" and try to make them fit the situation, because you're right - they won't work. Asking people for lines is pathetic; think up your own... the first few weeks/months they might be sad and chump-ish but just as with everything else, they'll improve with constant practice until you sound like a natural.
 

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Originally posted by diablo
C&F is completely situational. You shouldn't memorize a bunch of "lines" and try to make them fit the situation, because you're right - they won't work. Asking people for lines is pathetic; think up your own... the first few weeks/months they might be sad and chump-ish but just as with everything else, they'll improve with constant practice until you sound like a natural.
Diablo's got it. Spur of the moment is always better.
 
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