"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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****y and Funny explained...sort of

*29*

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Originally posted by setarcos:

****y and funny will come naturally because you speak your mind. You don't care about making people laugh or being funny, you only care about making yourself laugh.
Some people try and think of ways to be ****y and Funny in order to show the girl they don't care.

BUT LOOK!

Originally posted by *29*:

Some people try and think of ways to be ****y and Funny in order to show the girl they don't care.
They tried to think of ways to impress the girl by trying to show they don't care? aka memorizing C&F lines?!

Some people think that by saying C&F lines it shows the woman that they are confident, high status, etc. etc.

No no no.

Originally posted by setarcos:

You don't care about making people laugh or being funny, you only care about making yourself laugh.


You bust on a girl because YOU find it humorous. It's fun to make fun of her, that's why it's called making FUN.

Laugh....and the world laughs with you.

YOU DO AND SAY BECAUSE IT'S WHAT YOU WANT TO DO.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When u see a french girl and she asks "Ohhhh do u speak french"

u say "Hey I cant speak it but I can do it" then smirk and the girl will laugh..then proceed to ask for her phone number

Originally posted by MacDiddy
give us a few examples my ****y and Funny friend!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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C&F is completely situational. You shouldn't memorize a bunch of "lines" and try to make them fit the situation, because you're right - they won't work. Asking people for lines is pathetic; think up your own... the first few weeks/months they might be sad and chump-ish but just as with everything else, they'll improve with constant practice until you sound like a natural.
 

So Many Ways

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Originally posted by diablo
C&F is completely situational. You shouldn't memorize a bunch of "lines" and try to make them fit the situation, because you're right - they won't work. Asking people for lines is pathetic; think up your own... the first few weeks/months they might be sad and chump-ish but just as with everything else, they'll improve with constant practice until you sound like a natural.
Diablo's got it. Spur of the moment is always better.
 
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