"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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****y and Aggrance the SAME??

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****y and Arrogance the SAME??

well lately i have seen some post about arrogance and everyone is saying how bad that is! but then they turn around and say that you need to be c&f........and i think that alot of new djs maybe having alot of trouble, becuase they are getting these two things mixed up!....so i want you guys definiton of both words, and there differences.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Someone here explained to me years ago that
****iness is knowing you rule; arrogance is making others feel that they don't.
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As far as I know, ****iness and "arrogance" are the same thing! Some people are probably advising not to be arrogant/****y because most people aren't FUNNY when they use c&f.

edit: stay fresh "Original Ganster"...hehe
 
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If arrogance is Coke, then ****yness is Diet Coke, if you get what I'm saying.

It's not as arrogant as arrogance, but still arrogant in a way. Now you see why I used the coke analogy, can't fvcking explain it!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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true confidence, beats arogance and ****yness any day.

****yness & arogance -> means pretending to be the **** when you know your not

True confidence-> knowing your limits and knowing your self. being TOTALY CONFIDENT in your self and your abilities. To an untraind eye that may look like ****yness and arogance. But it's not. Confidence comes from with in...........ahhhh, i can't explain it.(i'm a sh1ty writer, that's why I barley passed my english clasess.)
 
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Originally posted by spider_007
true confidence, beats arogance and ****yness any day.

****yness & arogance -> means pretending to be the **** when you know your not

True confidence-> knowing your limits and knowing your self. being TOTALY CONFIDENT in your self and your abilities. To an untraind eye that may look like ****yness and arogance. But it's not. Confidence comes from with in...........ahhhh, i can't explain it.(i'm a sh1ty writer, that's why I barley passed my english clasess.)
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You explained it well enough and I totally agree. Real confidence speaks for itself.

I should also point out that ****y + funny is very different from plain ****y. C+F should be like tongue-in-cheek arrogance.
 
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****y and Funny means its supposed to be fake and funny, not real arrogance. She has to be laughing and has to know you are joking around. If she isnt laughing and youre just talking about how good you are you're just being an ass not C&F.

For example (to steal one from David D who did a whole workshop on this) you can look at her watch and say "I didn't know rolex made plastic watches"
 
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Someone here explained to me years ago that
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thats a stupid explanation cause what others feel is only affected by you and their entire environment causes what they feel, **** saying i sorta play ball can make someone feel like they dont just cause im tall !

ur definition sux.
 
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Originally posted by spider_007
true confidence, beats arogance and ****yness any day.

****yness & arogance -> means pretending to be the **** when you know your not

True confidence-> knowing your limits and knowing your self. being TOTALY CONFIDENT in your self and your abilities. To an untraind eye that may look like ****yness and arogance. But it's not. Confidence comes from with in...........ahhhh, i can't explain it.(i'm a sh1ty writer, that's why I barley passed my english clasess.)
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yA and you missed out that there are no limits.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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[Edit]Oh, never mind.
 
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Arrogance is defined as having overbearing pride. An arrogant person thinks that he or she is the best. Arrogance and ****iness are synonymous. ****y means to be overly self assertive and confident. When someone is straight up ****y, they seem unapproachable. But when you add humor to the ****iness it makes people laugh, esp women. Women are turned on by ****y and funny men because they act strong, are funny, and thrilling and unpredictable (never quite knowing what to expect).
 
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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
thats a stupid explanation cause what others feel is only affected by you and their entire environment causes what they feel, **** saying i sorta play ball can make someone feel like they dont just cause im tall !

ur definition sux.
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that made no sense !:confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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