"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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****y and Aggrance the SAME??

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****y and Arrogance the SAME??

well lately i have seen some post about arrogance and everyone is saying how bad that is! but then they turn around and say that you need to be c&f........and i think that alot of new djs maybe having alot of trouble, becuase they are getting these two things mixed up!....so i want you guys definiton of both words, and there differences.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Someone here explained to me years ago that
****iness is knowing you rule; arrogance is making others feel that they don't.
 

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As far as I know, ****iness and "arrogance" are the same thing! Some people are probably advising not to be arrogant/****y because most people aren't FUNNY when they use c&f.

edit: stay fresh "Original Ganster"...hehe
 

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If arrogance is Coke, then ****yness is Diet Coke, if you get what I'm saying.

It's not as arrogant as arrogance, but still arrogant in a way. Now you see why I used the coke analogy, can't fvcking explain it!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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true confidence, beats arogance and ****yness any day.

****yness & arogance -> means pretending to be the **** when you know your not

True confidence-> knowing your limits and knowing your self. being TOTALY CONFIDENT in your self and your abilities. To an untraind eye that may look like ****yness and arogance. But it's not. Confidence comes from with in...........ahhhh, i can't explain it.(i'm a sh1ty writer, that's why I barley passed my english clasess.)
 

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Originally posted by spider_007
true confidence, beats arogance and ****yness any day.

****yness & arogance -> means pretending to be the **** when you know your not

True confidence-> knowing your limits and knowing your self. being TOTALY CONFIDENT in your self and your abilities. To an untraind eye that may look like ****yness and arogance. But it's not. Confidence comes from with in...........ahhhh, i can't explain it.(i'm a sh1ty writer, that's why I barley passed my english clasess.)

You explained it well enough and I totally agree. Real confidence speaks for itself.

I should also point out that ****y + funny is very different from plain ****y. C+F should be like tongue-in-cheek arrogance.
 

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****y and Funny means its supposed to be fake and funny, not real arrogance. She has to be laughing and has to know you are joking around. If she isnt laughing and youre just talking about how good you are you're just being an ass not C&F.

For example (to steal one from David D who did a whole workshop on this) you can look at her watch and say "I didn't know rolex made plastic watches"
 

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Originally posted by Von Neuen
Someone here explained to me years ago that
thats a stupid explanation cause what others feel is only affected by you and their entire environment causes what they feel, **** saying i sorta play ball can make someone feel like they dont just cause im tall !

ur definition sux.
 

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Originally posted by spider_007
true confidence, beats arogance and ****yness any day.

****yness & arogance -> means pretending to be the **** when you know your not

True confidence-> knowing your limits and knowing your self. being TOTALY CONFIDENT in your self and your abilities. To an untraind eye that may look like ****yness and arogance. But it's not. Confidence comes from with in...........ahhhh, i can't explain it.(i'm a sh1ty writer, that's why I barley passed my english clasess.)
yA and you missed out that there are no limits.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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[Edit]Oh, never mind.
 

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Arrogance is defined as having overbearing pride. An arrogant person thinks that he or she is the best. Arrogance and ****iness are synonymous. ****y means to be overly self assertive and confident. When someone is straight up ****y, they seem unapproachable. But when you add humor to the ****iness it makes people laugh, esp women. Women are turned on by ****y and funny men because they act strong, are funny, and thrilling and unpredictable (never quite knowing what to expect).
 

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Originally posted by RaWBLooD
thats a stupid explanation cause what others feel is only affected by you and their entire environment causes what they feel, **** saying i sorta play ball can make someone feel like they dont just cause im tall !

ur definition sux.
that made no sense !:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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