"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wrist training

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i am me

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Really?? I get that too...I thought it was just me....

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MindOverMatter

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you might be experiancing joint pains, start taking some glucosamine. i just finished 6 weeks of german volume training, and my arm joints are in so much pain, glucosamine is helping them get better.
 

ryan killa

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Try squeezing any small ball, such as a tennis ball, or whatever. Especially good when watching tv, anytime you're idle really.
 

Alpine

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Sounds like you've hyperextended your wrists.

I'd lay off for a week.

If you think those are painful try the palms up version!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DanishDJ

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This is getting worse, I cant do push ups, cant do deadlift, cant do hanging leglifts or any other exercise where I have to hang in my arms.
 

ScrewIt

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i dont understand how you're getting pain. I have relatively skinny wrists, and they ARE weak. Because of that, specific exercises that require my wrist muscles get tiring fast such as benchpresses.

i'd give your wrist time to rest and heal. if worst goes to worst, i suggest seeing a doctor.

in the future, you might want to consider doing wrist curls w/ dumbells as a wrist exercise.
 

Anhslaught

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if you hurt your wrist u shouldn't be working out, but if you really must. I find that when using the stand up wrist roll up bar to be really good with or without wrist pain. In my opinion its a lot better than wrist curls. It doesn't much much tension on it, only on my forearm, but thats just me. When I had my wrist pain, I did that and didn't feel a thing. But again, that could just be me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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coolguy676767

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lol, no I hvae this problem too, but mine as only started sijnce I started lifting heavier weights such as 300 on my bench and tjhey hurt really bad after a long day or about 5 sets of 1 at 320, but I tried wrist straps and they might look a little messed up but work wonders, I think the site is prowriststraps.com or just search for it, but to strengthen your wirsts get a dumbbell and palm up arm at 90 degree curls with only your wrist moving arm staying still. Or like squeeze a tenis ball helps.
 
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