"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Would you...
- Thread starter arutha
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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arutha
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Lol, indeed. You could rationalize that she would be easy to amuse, since shes used to boredom, but on the other hand.. Well, it speaks for itself.But what if she looked like a page 3 model/ playboy bunny?
THEN ID SAY YES!!!
diablo
Master Don Juan
Depends on if she was hot or not. If I was just looking for sex, and she was acceptable, then yes - sounds like she'd be easy pickings... though it'd be important to not let her know where I lived as she may easily become a psycho. In terms of relationship material she sounds like bad news.Originally posted by arutha
Go out with a chick like this
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
People tend to exaggerate when they're feeling down, but when things get back on track they look back and think: "it wasnt as bad as I made it out to be!"
So yeah, if you want you can find out if she is REALLY like this, or if its just temporary circumstances bringing her down.
arutha
Senior Don Juan
I went out with her ages ago, it lasted less than a week. After finding this site I know exactly why I got the BS LJBF line too, I was embarassingly wussy.. lol
I mostly posted the thread for comical value, not real advice. But I guess either works..
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Originally posted by arutha
My life has pretty much turned to nothing. I get up, I am bored, I watch tv, or play endless amounts of solitaire and listen to music. I'm barely eating, I don't feel like it. I'm too depressed to even get a job so I can stop being bored every day. I'm even getting sick of the cat at times.
I think I'm starting to like someone who I probably shouldn't, or at least I'm attracted to them.
My head is completely messed up right now, and I'm not sure how to go about fixing my life.
I'm sleeping terribly, can't do much to change that either.
I practically have no friends, or rather, I've barely seen any of my friends since I've moved into this apartment. I'm not paying any rent, and yet I seem to have even less money to spend than before.
Originally posted by arutha
My life has pretty much turned to nothing. I get up, I am bored, I watch tv, or play endless amounts of solitaire and listen to music. I'm over eating, I feel like it. I'm too depressed to even get a job so I can stop being bored every day. I'm even getting sick of the cat at times.
I think I'm starting to like someone who I probably shouldn't, or at least I'm attracted to them.
My head is completely messed up right now, and I'm not sure how to go about fixing my life.
I'm sleeping terribly, can't do much to change that either.
I practically have no friends, or rather, I've barely seen any of my friends since I've moved into this apartment. I'm not paying any rent, and yet I seem to have even less money to spend than before.
Which girl would you choose?
my point exactly, theres worse out there that the one you mentioned.Originally posted by arutha
The first.. I would rather a skinny chick than a fat chick any day.
now imagine the same thread, with the over eating, and throw in some red hair.. ick!