“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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arutha

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Go out with a chick like this

My life has pretty much turned to nothing. I get up, I am bored, I watch tv, or play endless amounts of solitaire and listen to music. I'm barely eating, I don't feel like it. I'm too depressed to even get a job so I can stop being bored every day. I'm even getting sick of the cat at times.
I think I'm starting to like someone who I probably shouldn't, or at least I'm attracted to them.
My head is completely messed up right now, and I'm not sure how to go about fixing my life.
I'm sleeping terribly, can't do much to change that either.
I practically have no friends, or rather, I've barely seen any of my friends since I've moved into this apartment. I'm not paying any rent, and yet I seem to have even less money to spend than before.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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:crackup: Maybe I should have asked for reasons..

But what if she looked like a page 3 model/ playboy bunny?

THEN ID SAY YES!!!
Lol, indeed. You could rationalize that she would be easy to amuse, since shes used to boredom, but on the other hand.. Well, it speaks for itself.
 

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Originally posted by arutha
Go out with a chick like this
Depends on if she was hot or not. If I was just looking for sex, and she was acceptable, then yes - sounds like she'd be easy pickings... though it'd be important to not let her know where I lived as she may easily become a psycho. In terms of relationship material she sounds like bad news.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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id sell her into sex slavery. give her life some purpose. that should make those clouds go away.
 

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It could just be temporary, her being depressed and all, since her living arrangements have changed.

People tend to exaggerate when they're feeling down, but when things get back on track they look back and think: "it wasnt as bad as I made it out to be!"

So yeah, if you want you can find out if she is REALLY like this, or if its just temporary circumstances bringing her down.
 

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Shes always bored, but not always depressed..

I went out with her ages ago, it lasted less than a week. After finding this site I know exactly why I got the BS LJBF line too, I was embarassingly wussy.. lol


I mostly posted the thread for comical value, not real advice. But I guess either works..
 

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Sounds like an interesting test for one to take...

Can you lift someone out of their misery?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by arutha
My life has pretty much turned to nothing. I get up, I am bored, I watch tv, or play endless amounts of solitaire and listen to music. I'm barely eating, I don't feel like it. I'm too depressed to even get a job so I can stop being bored every day. I'm even getting sick of the cat at times.
I think I'm starting to like someone who I probably shouldn't, or at least I'm attracted to them.
My head is completely messed up right now, and I'm not sure how to go about fixing my life.
I'm sleeping terribly, can't do much to change that either.
I practically have no friends, or rather, I've barely seen any of my friends since I've moved into this apartment. I'm not paying any rent, and yet I seem to have even less money to spend than before.
Originally posted by arutha
My life has pretty much turned to nothing. I get up, I am bored, I watch tv, or play endless amounts of solitaire and listen to music. I'm over eating, I feel like it. I'm too depressed to even get a job so I can stop being bored every day. I'm even getting sick of the cat at times.
I think I'm starting to like someone who I probably shouldn't, or at least I'm attracted to them.
My head is completely messed up right now, and I'm not sure how to go about fixing my life.
I'm sleeping terribly, can't do much to change that either.
I practically have no friends, or rather, I've barely seen any of my friends since I've moved into this apartment. I'm not paying any rent, and yet I seem to have even less money to spend than before.

Which girl would you choose?
 

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The first.. I would rather a skinny chick than a fat chick any day.
 

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Originally posted by arutha
The first.. I would rather a skinny chick than a fat chick any day.
my point exactly, theres worse out there that the one you mentioned.


now imagine the same thread, with the over eating, and throw in some red hair.. ick!
 
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