"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Would you take another human life ?

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Under what circumstances would you take another life if any ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Self defence.. In south africa its pretty much manditory to carry a knife or pepper spray when leaving your home.

If someone pulls a knife on me, I wont hesitate to slash there throat.

If they pull a gun either run, or give them what they want.
 

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if it was me or them...yes .....selfish I know!
 
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Protection of my offspring/family, or if I felt like my life was in danger.

Morally, I'd be fine taking a few people out now who I just simply don't like. But I can't just do that because there are consequences.

-Scars
 

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Yes, I would kill a person.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't think that the majority of murderers are bad people. A lot of people in jail for murder killed someone who did something to deserve it. Rape or molestation of a family member is a common reason.
 

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If you going to kill someone be sure to get rid of the body, bury it, or eat it. No body, no murder case. No murder case, that means there is a missing person case. Now to the question at hand, would I kill? No. I wouldn't want to look around for the rest of my life in fear of retaliation against me or my family. But could I kill? Yes. If there is nothing left to loose.
 

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If somebody try to harm any of my family members,friend or innocent part under my protection and I have chance to take him away I would with no second tought.

The same thing if someone invade my property with no authorization or necessity, and the answer is yes, I consider my hard gained property more worthy than the life of someone who doesnt respect me and my territory.

Pity most of Europe became a weak and feminized place and laws are shaped according to emotions and morals(aka approval seeking) instead of efficiency,logic and respect.
 

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Absolutely. If my family was in danger or I was in a war situation, I think it would be fairly easily.

I've never killed anybody to date, but I have pulled a gun on a dumb teenager in my yard and was mentally prepared to shoot until I found out who it was.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wish i had the willpower to do it, there is a part of me that chickens out hardcore when it comes to hurting others.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
Self defence.. In south africa its pretty much manditory to carry a knife or pepper spray when leaving your home.

If someone pulls a knife on me, I wont hesitate to slash there throat.

If they pull a gun either run.
And that's how you get killed in this country
 

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Who Dares Win said:
The same thing if someone invade my property with no authorization or necessity, and the answer is yes, I consider my hard gained property more worthy than the life of someone who doesnt respect me and my territory.
You see it's wrong to kill a fief. A fief (or vor) makes his living by stealing. By killing a fief you guaranteed to answer under the gangster law (voravskoi zakon). Vori v zakone would gather and decide if you live or die.

If I ever catch one I'd make him answer under his own law. I'd take the stolen property back and gain respect in the under world. Respect alone is better than a gun. Respect is like a 24 hour security system.
 

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- Self-defense...and only as a last resort...if I can run away, I will.
- Defending a loved one....again as a last resort
- If I'm drafted for a war

And I am definitely for capital punishment, and in my line of work I'd be legally allowed to be the executioner but I don't plan on applying for that job anytime soon.

I don't think I'd necessarily kill somebody who molested or killed my mother/wife/daughter/close-relative-woman because I think they should be punished under the law. Now, if the law can't, for some reason, convict this person then I'm not sure what I'd do...
 

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backseatjuan said:
You see it's wrong to kill a fief. A fief (or vor) makes his living by stealing. By killing a fief you guaranteed to answer under the gangster law (voravskoi zakon). Vori v zakone would gather and decide if you live or die.

If I ever catch one I'd make him answer under his own law. I'd take the stolen property back and gain respect in the under world. Respect alone is better than a gun. Respect is like a 24 hour security system.
You claim you are in Russia but you live in a hollywood produced movie.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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backseatjuan said:
You see it's wrong to kill a fief. A fief (or vor) makes his living by stealing. By killing a fief you guaranteed to answer under the gangster law (voravskoi zakon). Vori v zakone would gather and decide if you live or die.

If I ever catch one I'd make him answer under his own law. I'd take the stolen property back and gain respect in the under world. Respect alone is better than a gun. Respect is like a 24 hour security system.
I dont play rpg games online but I kinda liked the tv series "brigada", are those the guys who decide?
 

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Yes, if the circumstances required that I did so.

Also, I would steal everything I wanted if I knew I wouldn't get caught.

The only thing stopping me in this world is the possibility of punishment.
 

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In a hot second, even if I had to go on the run because of it. I am not letting 12 granmas decide if I am ok, or not. **** that.
 

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If there was no other option and my life depended on it. :yes:
 
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