"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would you still be with her

Bling

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I know a kid that goes out with a hot chick (HB 9). She's got a banging ass as well. I was so jealous of him. Then I found out he can't do anything with her. No kissing, no hand holding, but they're still "seeing each other". Would you still be with her??
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bling

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Originally posted by redbyte
Because he finds it odd, and he wants another persons opinion.

I don't find it weird. I would still see her. If he truly loves her, he won't care. :cool:
Thanks. They've been going out for a month. Maybe he really likes her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LikRetsam

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She's a friend, they are not seeing each other.
 

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personally if im not physically attracted to a girl or not doing physical things with her then i dont see the point of a relationship. Cuz friends can do all that talking **** and its pretty much the same so no i wouldnt be with her.
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
She's a friend, they are not seeing each other.
Can I ask how you would know? They both tell me they're boyfriend girlfriend. They always brag about each other. They just aren't doing anything.
 

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Originally posted by Bling
They just aren't doing anything.
Answered your own question there, chief.
 

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They are still on the LEARNING path...

I'm taking it that these 2 people are kinda young? And they probably dont have much experiance with relationships and the "opposite sex"? I have seen this type of behaviour before... Its normal for people that arre not experianced. Give it time, they will find their way, sooner or later;))


Laterz...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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