Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bling

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I know a kid that goes out with a hot chick (HB 9). She's got a banging ass as well. I was so jealous of him. Then I found out he can't do anything with her. No kissing, no hand holding, but they're still "seeing each other". Would you still be with her??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bling

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Originally posted by redbyte
Because he finds it odd, and he wants another persons opinion.

I don't find it weird. I would still see her. If he truly loves her, he won't care. :cool:
Thanks. They've been going out for a month. Maybe he really likes her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She's a friend, they are not seeing each other.
 

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personally if im not physically attracted to a girl or not doing physical things with her then i dont see the point of a relationship. Cuz friends can do all that talking **** and its pretty much the same so no i wouldnt be with her.
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
She's a friend, they are not seeing each other.
Can I ask how you would know? They both tell me they're boyfriend girlfriend. They always brag about each other. They just aren't doing anything.
 

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Originally posted by Bling
They just aren't doing anything.
Answered your own question there, chief.
 

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They are still on the LEARNING path...

I'm taking it that these 2 people are kinda young? And they probably dont have much experiance with relationships and the "opposite sex"? I have seen this type of behaviour before... Its normal for people that arre not experianced. Give it time, they will find their way, sooner or later;))


Laterz...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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