I know a kid that goes out with a hot chick (HB 9). She's got a banging ass as well. I was so jealous of him. Then I found out he can't do anything with her. No kissing, no hand holding, but they're still "seeing each other". Would you still be with her??
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Would you still be with her
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
assassin
Don Juan
why the **** can't she?
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why do you care, Bling?
Thanks. They've been going out for a month. Maybe he really likes her.Originally posted by redbyte
Because he finds it odd, and he wants another persons opinion.
I don't find it weird. I would still see her. If he truly loves her, he won't care.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
trippychip
Don Juan
personally if im not physically attracted to a girl or not doing physical things with her then i dont see the point of a relationship. Cuz friends can do all that talking **** and its pretty much the same so no i wouldnt be with her.
They are still on the LEARNING path...
I'm taking it that these 2 people are kinda young? And they probably dont have much experiance with relationships and the "opposite sex"? I have seen this type of behaviour before... Its normal for people that arre not experianced. Give it time, they will find their way, sooner or later)
Laterz...
I'm taking it that these 2 people are kinda young? And they probably dont have much experiance with relationships and the "opposite sex"? I have seen this type of behaviour before... Its normal for people that arre not experianced. Give it time, they will find their way, sooner or later
)Laterz...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.