I know a kid that goes out with a hot chick (HB 9). She's got a banging ass as well. I was so jealous of him. Then I found out he can't do anything with her. No kissing, no hand holding, but they're still "seeing each other". Would you still be with her??
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Would you still be with her
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
assassin
Don Juan
why the **** can't she?
average joe2003
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why do you care, Bling?
Thanks. They've been going out for a month. Maybe he really likes her.Originally posted by redbyte
Because he finds it odd, and he wants another persons opinion.
I don't find it weird. I would still see her. If he truly loves her, he won't care.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
trippychip
Don Juan
personally if im not physically attracted to a girl or not doing physical things with her then i dont see the point of a relationship. Cuz friends can do all that talking **** and its pretty much the same so no i wouldnt be with her.
They are still on the LEARNING path...
I'm taking it that these 2 people are kinda young? And they probably dont have much experiance with relationships and the "opposite sex"? I have seen this type of behaviour before... Its normal for people that arre not experianced. Give it time, they will find their way, sooner or later)
Laterz...
I'm taking it that these 2 people are kinda young? And they probably dont have much experiance with relationships and the "opposite sex"? I have seen this type of behaviour before... Its normal for people that arre not experianced. Give it time, they will find their way, sooner or later
)Laterz...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.