SamoJednom
Don Juan
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EDIT: My response was initially on here but I decided to be civil and stick to PM sorry to people who read my response.
-SamoJednom
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'd reccomend a double quarter pounder with cheese and some heavy weightsFrank2500 said:I was wondering if any of you would recommend to guys who are already naturally skinny and slim as me,?
At least half the posts here say to drop the musclemilk and then give you advice on what to do to gain muscle properly. All we're trying to do is stop you from spinning your wheels like so many others do.Frank2500 said:To the person who responded to me in "bold," there's no need to take it personal. I haven't had enough time to sit on the computer and read every response folks have written on this topic until fairly recently, and my questions were put out of genuine curiosity. Some of you on here just seem to love getting confrontational with others no matter what the topic is about.
Simon didn't take it personally. He's trying to get you to see the point, which is that there is no magic drink, no magic routine, no magic pill that will help you gain muscle. There's lots of information, and it takes some time & effort to digest, particularly because it often goes against conventional wisdom.Frank2500 said:To the person who responded to me in "bold," there's no need to take it personal.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.