SamoJednom
Don Juan
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EDIT: My response was initially on here but I decided to be civil and stick to PM sorry to people who read my response.
-SamoJednom
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'd reccomend a double quarter pounder with cheese and some heavy weightsFrank2500 said:I was wondering if any of you would recommend to guys who are already naturally skinny and slim as me,?
At least half the posts here say to drop the musclemilk and then give you advice on what to do to gain muscle properly. All we're trying to do is stop you from spinning your wheels like so many others do.Frank2500 said:To the person who responded to me in "bold," there's no need to take it personal. I haven't had enough time to sit on the computer and read every response folks have written on this topic until fairly recently, and my questions were put out of genuine curiosity. Some of you on here just seem to love getting confrontational with others no matter what the topic is about.
Simon didn't take it personally. He's trying to get you to see the point, which is that there is no magic drink, no magic routine, no magic pill that will help you gain muscle. There's lots of information, and it takes some time & effort to digest, particularly because it often goes against conventional wisdom.Frank2500 said:To the person who responded to me in "bold," there's no need to take it personal.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.