SamoJednom
Don Juan
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EDIT: My response was initially on here but I decided to be civil and stick to PM sorry to people who read my response.
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'd reccomend a double quarter pounder with cheese and some heavy weightsFrank2500 said:I was wondering if any of you would recommend to guys who are already naturally skinny and slim as me,?
At least half the posts here say to drop the musclemilk and then give you advice on what to do to gain muscle properly. All we're trying to do is stop you from spinning your wheels like so many others do.Frank2500 said:To the person who responded to me in "bold," there's no need to take it personal. I haven't had enough time to sit on the computer and read every response folks have written on this topic until fairly recently, and my questions were put out of genuine curiosity. Some of you on here just seem to love getting confrontational with others no matter what the topic is about.
Simon didn't take it personally. He's trying to get you to see the point, which is that there is no magic drink, no magic routine, no magic pill that will help you gain muscle. There's lots of information, and it takes some time & effort to digest, particularly because it often goes against conventional wisdom.Frank2500 said:To the person who responded to me in "bold," there's no need to take it personal.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.