diplomatic_lies
Master Don Juan
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Aren't you and PRL a little immature for 40-year-old men?
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I apologize to you - you should have put a smiley face after your comment!Desdinova said:Dude, I've got nothing against you or your definition of the word "hor". Perhaps I'm the only one who found my response funny. My apologies if I offended you.
But you call every woman a hor.Last Man Standing said:MAN rule number 1 - Never call a man's mother a hor - especially if it is not true!! Where I come from men get beat down severely and killed for talking like this!
Never have I called every woman a hor - only hors are hors!!diplomatic_lies said:But you call every woman a hor.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So what is a hor?Last Man Standing said:Never have I called every woman a hor - only hors are hors!!
Is a wife a hor? No, can't be! Are female babies hors? An emphatic "No!"!
You must be in the hor condition to be a hor!
I will answer this in due time!!!diplomatic_lies said:So what is a hor?