diplomatic_lies
Master Don Juan
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Aren't you and PRL a little immature for 40-year-old men?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I apologize to you - you should have put a smiley face after your comment!Desdinova said:Dude, I've got nothing against you or your definition of the word "hor". Perhaps I'm the only one who found my response funny. My apologies if I offended you.
But you call every woman a hor.Last Man Standing said:MAN rule number 1 - Never call a man's mother a hor - especially if it is not true!! Where I come from men get beat down severely and killed for talking like this!
Never have I called every woman a hor - only hors are hors!!diplomatic_lies said:But you call every woman a hor.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So what is a hor?Last Man Standing said:Never have I called every woman a hor - only hors are hors!!
Is a wife a hor? No, can't be! Are female babies hors? An emphatic "No!"!
You must be in the hor condition to be a hor!
I will answer this in due time!!!diplomatic_lies said:So what is a hor?