diplomatic_lies
Master Don Juan
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Aren't you and PRL a little immature for 40-year-old men?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I apologize to you - you should have put a smiley face after your comment!Desdinova said:Dude, I've got nothing against you or your definition of the word "hor". Perhaps I'm the only one who found my response funny. My apologies if I offended you.
But you call every woman a hor.Last Man Standing said:MAN rule number 1 - Never call a man's mother a hor - especially if it is not true!! Where I come from men get beat down severely and killed for talking like this!
Never have I called every woman a hor - only hors are hors!!diplomatic_lies said:But you call every woman a hor.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So what is a hor?Last Man Standing said:Never have I called every woman a hor - only hors are hors!!
Is a wife a hor? No, can't be! Are female babies hors? An emphatic "No!"!
You must be in the hor condition to be a hor!
I will answer this in due time!!!diplomatic_lies said:So what is a hor?