diplomatic_lies
Master Don Juan
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Aren't you and PRL a little immature for 40-year-old men?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I apologize to you - you should have put a smiley face after your comment!Desdinova said:Dude, I've got nothing against you or your definition of the word "hor". Perhaps I'm the only one who found my response funny. My apologies if I offended you.
But you call every woman a hor.Last Man Standing said:MAN rule number 1 - Never call a man's mother a hor - especially if it is not true!! Where I come from men get beat down severely and killed for talking like this!
Never have I called every woman a hor - only hors are hors!!diplomatic_lies said:But you call every woman a hor.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So what is a hor?Last Man Standing said:Never have I called every woman a hor - only hors are hors!!
Is a wife a hor? No, can't be! Are female babies hors? An emphatic "No!"!
You must be in the hor condition to be a hor!
I will answer this in due time!!!diplomatic_lies said:So what is a hor?