Thorninmyside
Master Don Juan
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Nope. Wouldn't piss on one if they were on fire either.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
number one, you won't, trust me. number two, waste of time. no matter if it were possibly or not, you would always have to wonder in the relationship when she'd go back to her bullsh*t ways. and if you get into an LTR with her/him, you just get sh*t on until you walk out the door then if they do. not worth it, not worth it at allMy ultimate challenge is to dominate a feminist.
Same here!My ultimate challenge is to dominate a feminist.
Finding a young woman today who hasn't been tainted by feminism would be almost impossible. If she grew up in the U.S. , its almost a certainty that she will have been indoctrinated by our feminine controlled society.Believes in male privilege, the myth of male power, female victimhood.
I feel open to an LTR and many girls I date push for it but one common theme I'm finding is that so many of the women I date, particularly the younger ones seem to either be self proclaimed feminists or they share that belief system. It makes sense given feminism is the mainstream now but it sure is tiring. Inevitably I have to dump these girls or string them along as plates. Eventually they get wise to it and leave.
It seems like I'm either going to have to go for a church girl or concede defeat and accept this as part of dealing with today's modern woman. Most of these women are not militant feminists and are otherwise great. It just irks me that if sh*t ever hit the fan they would default to their position of female victimhood.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Augustus short but beautiful explanation, sharing your opinion 100%Finding a young woman today who hasn't been tainted by feminism would be almost impossible. If she grew up in the U.S. , its almost a certainty that she will have been indoctrinated by our feminine controlled society.
The narrative of male privilege and female victim hood permeates all aspects of our society and culture. The woman who might be able to see through the propaganda of that narrative would be extremely rare.
So then it becomes a matter of degree. On which end of the feminist spectrum does she reside?
Other factors to consider when looking for a woman worthy of an LTR:
Are her parents still married?
Does her mother treat her father with respect ?
Is she mentally stable?
Was she raised with a strong sense of morality?
Is she happy most of the time?
Does she examine her past behavior and learn from her mistakes?
Does she respect men?
Does she recognize that men & women are different and possess different strengths?
Does she perceive you as a high value alpha that she needs to take care of, make you happy and not give you shiz?
-Augustus-
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.