"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Would you like it if you could get women's numbers by having them scan their thumb on your phone?
- Thread starter Gimple
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Gimple
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That's my next step, actually. Any guesses on how they'll respond?
Guy69JackBlue
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It's certainly a start...
Although these days, getting an Instagram or other social media is the same thing. And there are REAL RELATIONSHIPS that have been started by a guy getting a girls IG. I'm not talking about girls stringing guys along.
RickTheToad
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Nah, I've added extra privacy options and security sh!t. Androids are pretty customizable if one knows what they are doing. If not, it turns into a paperweight.
RickTheToad
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I have an Alexa, it's good while cooking to listen to music. Though, I spoiled myself and bought a new smart Roku TV for the kitchen which as Pandora and Spotify, so I may be ditching Alexa too. I am more of a listener than a watcher, so the TVs now having music is pretty cool.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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