"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Would you like it if you could get women's numbers by having them scan their thumb on your phone?
- Thread starter Gimple
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Gimple
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That's my next step, actually. Any guesses on how they'll respond?
Guy69JackBlue
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It's certainly a start...
Although these days, getting an Instagram or other social media is the same thing. And there are REAL RELATIONSHIPS that have been started by a guy getting a girls IG. I'm not talking about girls stringing guys along.
RickTheToad
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Nah, I've added extra privacy options and security sh!t. Androids are pretty customizable if one knows what they are doing. If not, it turns into a paperweight.
RickTheToad
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I have an Alexa, it's good while cooking to listen to music. Though, I spoiled myself and bought a new smart Roku TV for the kitchen which as Pandora and Spotify, so I may be ditching Alexa too. I am more of a listener than a watcher, so the TVs now having music is pretty cool.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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