"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Would you give up your own place to go live in her house?

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If you're renting your own space, and live alone, would you ever interrumpt the contract, and go cohabiting with a woman, in her house, for a LTR?


(and at which point would you believe she might use that as an excuse to have power)
 

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Look up the iron rules of @Rollo Tomassi
I have friends live with their wealthy GF.
3 of them.
2 are married, 1 is not (because she doesn't want to get married).
Just to report.

Roles start getting reversed
That is because your POV of a LTR is that the man must be the foundation of anything we "own" in his life, relationship too.
Also, because you see that from a power perspective.

Given this, I think there are women who are wealthy and that would genuinely not use that as blackmail. (rare))
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

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Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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If you're renting your own space, and live alone, would you ever interrumpt the contract, and go cohabiting with a woman, in her house, for a LTR?
IF

-She has a twin sister

-Both she and sis are bi-curious

-They're each centerfold beautiful

-The 3 of us will be sharing the same bed most nights of the week

I might consider giving up my own abode for a trial run
 

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If you're renting your own space, and live alone, would you ever interrumpt the contract, and go cohabiting with a woman, in her house, for a LTR?


(and at which point would you believe she might use that as an excuse to have power)
The answer to your question is no. You automatically cede power, which is not a good idea. But you know this, you don't need to ask.
 

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Terrible idea.

You basically speed run towards the end of the relationship. A relationship that might've lasted 3 years will now go bust in 6 months.

You better have the skills of a professional cleaner if you want to make it work. If a woman comes to your house she can " add" the hygiene and neat factor. But what yiu gonna add to her house? Piss stains on the toilet seat? Drool on her satin pillows? And eventually the relationship-ender:not closing of the toothpaste.

Only stupid men do this.
 

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Thanks for your feedback.
That is also my thinking process too.

I would own a house, and eventually rent that, to go rent anotherbigger house we would pay 50/50.
So if anything happen, I have my own house which I could go back, and I risk nothing.
 

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Eh, if you're renting, it's no big thing since you could simply rent another place once you break up. I would never give up a house that I wanted to keep - that said, if I were looking for a reason to sell, and this came along, I would sell it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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IF

-She has a twin sister

-Both she and sis are bi-curious

-They're each centerfold beautiful

-The 3 of us will be sharing the same bed most nights of the week

I might consider giving up my own abode for a trial run
How come this sheet never happens to me? :mad: :mad:
 

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How come this sheet never happens to me? :mad: :mad:
One possible explanation:

Like many of us moderns, you're addicted to what's known as Magical Thinking... Namely, believing that simply by imagining things, what you desire will more or less fall into your lap, 3 ways with beautiful women included
 

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So the answer is No
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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No. However, if she was uber-rich I wouldn't be opposed to having a sugar Momma and playing that into dynamic for free rent and lifestyle upgrade, but I wouldn't take her or the relationship seriously.

I actually had an opportunity for something like this a while back. I met this girl who worked in finance, i think she was a hedge fund manager or something and made a LOT of money. She said she was about to move out to CA and wanted to find a guy to move in with her and was 100% okay with being the breadwinner....but I couldn't help myself and told her that it was unnatural for a man to be in such a position.... and so nothing came of it. In hindsight I think I should have given it a try and felt like an idiot for fumbling that. I am not a hard worker and i'm not totally unwilling to degrade myself for money....you get free rent and lifestyle upgrade and regular sex, whats the issue? If the relationship turns sour, just leave. The benefit here is that since the place is in her name, you have the freedom to get up and leave, which actually gives you a lot of power. For this reason if you are going to cohabitat with a woman (which I don't think a man should ever do), it actually makes more sense if she's the breadwinner since she is the one with something to lose.

Anyway...in the context of an ordinary LTR and ordinary circumstances, I would never do that in a million years.
 
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