Would you give up your own place to go live in her house?

[jhonny9546]

If you're renting your own space, and live alone, would you ever interrumpt the contract, and go cohabiting with a woman, in her house, for a LTR?


(and at which point would you believe she might use that as an excuse to have power)

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Usually a bad idea. Roles start getting reversed and it rarely ends well

 

[Hamurabimbi]

No.

 

[Novice1]

If you're renting your own space, and live alone, would you ever interrumpt the contract, and go cohabiting with a woman, in her house, for a LTR?


(and at which point would you believe she might use that as an excuse to have power)

Look up the iron rules of @Rollo Tomassi

 

[jhonny9546]

Look up the iron rules of @Rollo Tomassi

I have friends live with their wealthy GF.
3 of them.
2 are married, 1 is not (because she doesn't want to get married).
Just to report.

Roles start getting reversed

That is because your POV of a LTR is that the man must be the foundation of anything we "own" in his life, relationship too.
Also, because you see that from a power perspective.

Given this, I think there are women who are wealthy and that would genuinely not use that as blackmail. (rare))

 

[BaronOfHair]

If you're renting your own space, and live alone, would you ever interrumpt the contract, and go cohabiting with a woman, in her house, for a LTR?

IF

-She has a twin sister

-Both she and sis are bi-curious

-They're each centerfold beautiful

-The 3 of us will be sharing the same bed most nights of the week

I might consider giving up my own abode for a trial run

 

[Westminster]

If you're renting your own space, and live alone, would you ever interrumpt the contract, and go cohabiting with a woman, in her house, for a LTR?


(and at which point would you believe she might use that as an excuse to have power)

The answer to your question is no. You automatically cede power, which is not a good idea. But you know this, you don't need to ask.

 

[Gamisch]

Terrible idea.

You basically speed run towards the end of the relationship. A relationship that might've lasted 3 years will now go bust in 6 months.

You better have the skills of a professional cleaner if you want to make it work. If a woman comes to your house she can " add" the hygiene and neat factor. But what yiu gonna add to her house? Piss stains on the toilet seat? Drool on her satin pillows? And eventually the relationship-ender:not closing of the toothpaste.

Only stupid men do this.

 

[jhonny9546]

Thanks for your feedback.
That is also my thinking process too.

I would own a house, and eventually rent that, to go rent anotherbigger house we would pay 50/50.
So if anything happen, I have my own house which I could go back, and I risk nothing.