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Don Juan
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- Sep 6, 2015
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Only a few steps up from MyLife! Only difficult part would be implementation of truthful information, from truthful sources.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I agree its really no ones business. But on the other hand I think women who've had a lot of partners, especially if they started fairly young, it's a bad idea to have a serious relationship with her. Especially when it comes to marriage, which is a financial/ legal contract where women can steal a mans property with the help of the courts. In my opinion if a woman misrepresents what kind of a person she really is and gets married to a man, its a scam. Its fraud.What business is that of yours or anyone else's?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girls and guys usually have at least one close, trusted friend who they tell the truth to. Not impossible to get stealth intel on that. But it's true that a massive database like the original idea is farfetched.How would you truly track this in a credible way? People lie all of the time about who they fvcked and didn't fvck.
- Ask a chick, and she hasn't fvcked anybody in years
- Ask a guy, and he has fvcked everybody over the last couple of months
Lmao. So damned true.- Ask a chick, and she hasn't fvcked anybody in years
- Ask a guy, and he has fvcked everybody over the last couple of months