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Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 6, 2015
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Only a few steps up from MyLife! Only difficult part would be implementation of truthful information, from truthful sources.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I agree its really no ones business. But on the other hand I think women who've had a lot of partners, especially if they started fairly young, it's a bad idea to have a serious relationship with her. Especially when it comes to marriage, which is a financial/ legal contract where women can steal a mans property with the help of the courts. In my opinion if a woman misrepresents what kind of a person she really is and gets married to a man, its a scam. Its fraud.What business is that of yours or anyone else's?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Girls and guys usually have at least one close, trusted friend who they tell the truth to. Not impossible to get stealth intel on that. But it's true that a massive database like the original idea is farfetched.How would you truly track this in a credible way? People lie all of the time about who they fvcked and didn't fvck.
- Ask a chick, and she hasn't fvcked anybody in years
- Ask a guy, and he has fvcked everybody over the last couple of months
Lmao. So damned true.- Ask a chick, and she hasn't fvcked anybody in years
- Ask a guy, and he has fvcked everybody over the last couple of months