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Don Juan
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- Sep 6, 2015
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Only a few steps up from MyLife! Only difficult part would be implementation of truthful information, from truthful sources.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I agree its really no ones business. But on the other hand I think women who've had a lot of partners, especially if they started fairly young, it's a bad idea to have a serious relationship with her. Especially when it comes to marriage, which is a financial/ legal contract where women can steal a mans property with the help of the courts. In my opinion if a woman misrepresents what kind of a person she really is and gets married to a man, its a scam. Its fraud.What business is that of yours or anyone else's?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girls and guys usually have at least one close, trusted friend who they tell the truth to. Not impossible to get stealth intel on that. But it's true that a massive database like the original idea is farfetched.How would you truly track this in a credible way? People lie all of the time about who they fvcked and didn't fvck.
- Ask a chick, and she hasn't fvcked anybody in years
- Ask a guy, and he has fvcked everybody over the last couple of months
Lmao. So damned true.- Ask a chick, and she hasn't fvcked anybody in years
- Ask a guy, and he has fvcked everybody over the last couple of months