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Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 6, 2015
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Only a few steps up from MyLife! Only difficult part would be implementation of truthful information, from truthful sources.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I agree its really no ones business. But on the other hand I think women who've had a lot of partners, especially if they started fairly young, it's a bad idea to have a serious relationship with her. Especially when it comes to marriage, which is a financial/ legal contract where women can steal a mans property with the help of the courts. In my opinion if a woman misrepresents what kind of a person she really is and gets married to a man, its a scam. Its fraud.What business is that of yours or anyone else's?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girls and guys usually have at least one close, trusted friend who they tell the truth to. Not impossible to get stealth intel on that. But it's true that a massive database like the original idea is farfetched.How would you truly track this in a credible way? People lie all of the time about who they fvcked and didn't fvck.
- Ask a chick, and she hasn't fvcked anybody in years
- Ask a guy, and he has fvcked everybody over the last couple of months
Lmao. So damned true.- Ask a chick, and she hasn't fvcked anybody in years
- Ask a guy, and he has fvcked everybody over the last couple of months