"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Would you ever approach a fat girl ?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Fat chicks have hot friends.
ziminxe79 said:
i have slept with fat girls and enjoyed all of em, slept with HB too!
but the saying is you can have 1 fat bird too many.
Fact is fat birds are perfect for bosting skills, you have more chances of success.
Also consider this, if every low confidence guy out there only had the balls to chat fat chicks up, then how many hot babes are being approached.
Annwer this: how many GL guys do you know lack confidence and only game birds they fell comfortable in gaming and are usually lower standered then they are. I know a hell of a lot!
So in that could it be percieved only the truly confident are gaming hot chicks whislt the rest are gaming average, so in that is it not safe to say average bird are getting more F**k time from guys?
Fat birds are great to practice on and the bonus if she is really ugly she will treat you like a GOD and you can almost get her to do ANYTHING at all and i mean anything.
If your horney in a club e.t.c and you knwo you have a guaranteed screw and she is fat and plain, but you think fu** it go for it, you only pleasing sociaty by saying no, also why are you fu**ing her, for you mates or for you?
Stop trying to impress your mates that are going home to flick the wrist when you could have some birds mouth around the main vain
.Obvouisly if she is really ugly then no, but saying that just get a few more beers its all cool.
Better then the alternative put it that way and great to practice your confidence on.
just dont take her out shopping or in public and your fine.
jonwon said:i have slept with fat girls and enjoyed all of em, slept with HB too!
but the saying is you can have 1 fat bird too many.
Fact is fat birds are perfect for bosting skills, you have more chances of success.
Also consider this, if every low confidence guy out there only had the balls to chat fat chicks up, then how many hot babes are being approached.
Annwer this: how many GL guys do you know lack confidence and only game birds they fell comfortable in gaming and are usually lower standered then they are. I know a hell of a lot!
So in that could it be percieved only the truly confident are gaming hot chicks whislt the rest are gaming average, so in that is it not safe to say average bird are getting more F**k time from guys?
Fat birds are great to practice on and the bonus if she is really ugly she will treat you like a GOD and you can almost get her to do ANYTHING at all and i mean anything.
If your horney in a club e.t.c and you knwo you have a guaranteed screw and she is fat and plain, but you think fu** it go for it, you only pleasing sociaty by saying no, also why are you fu**ing her, for you mates or for you?
Stop trying to impress your mates that are going home to flick the wrist when you could have some birds mouth around the main vain
Obvouisly if she is really ugly then no, but saying that just get a few more beers its all cool.
Better then the alternative put it that way and great to practice your confidence on.
just dont take her out shopping or in public and your fine.
That cool. taking fat girls out in public is bad because people make fun you.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
How about you start approaching guys for practice?ziminxe79 said:
You know, no pressure, it's even easier than fat girls, just to see what happens...:crackup:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Le Parisien
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Just for my curiosity, could you please post a pic link to what you consider a "hot fat chick"?Mr_knowit_all said:
Because I always thought "fat" and "hot" are an oxymoron...:nervous:
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Espi said:With beer goggles, anything's possible..they'll blow you in the club parking lot...nothing worng with that...
Sober, I don't approach fat girls, even if she's rich like Starr Jones
In case you haven't noticed, Starr isn't fat anymore......Now how she got that way is up for debate....
MassiveSquirrel
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Right...Mr_knowit_all said:
to be honest....I think Starr looked better bigger. She just like alien like to me now...
MetalFortress
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Chemistry
Master Don Juan
I wouldn't necessarily call it fat girls, but you'll be practicing on a number of girls who wouldn't be your first choice... within those practices there will be some worthwhile girls, but also a lot who aren't... essentially what you're aiming for is the long term so that when HB9 and HB9.5 come along you've got the skills down packed and can get what you want... you don't want to practice on them girls, because you'll kick yourself for not having the skills!
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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