You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
DJ_in_making said:I was JUST thinking of that. I was wondering what would be the best approach. ****y/Funny + Negging and all that works well w/ chicks w/ high self esteem so that's out of the question. If you compliment her she may not believe it or your attainability may seem too high for her. Well.... thank God I don't have to worry about them.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Vulpine said:Yes.
Fat chicks have hot friends.
ziminxe79 said:Would you ever approach a fat girl? Just to practice your skills on them. Not to date them or anything but just see what happans?
jonwon said:i have slept with fat girls and enjoyed all of em, slept with HB too!
but the saying is you can have 1 fat bird too many.
Fact is fat birds are perfect for bosting skills, you have more chances of success.
Also consider this, if every low confidence guy out there only had the balls to chat fat chicks up, then how many hot babes are being approached.
Annwer this: how many GL guys do you know lack confidence and only game birds they fell comfortable in gaming and are usually lower standered then they are. I know a hell of a lot!
So in that could it be percieved only the truly confident are gaming hot chicks whislt the rest are gaming average, so in that is it not safe to say average bird are getting more F**k time from guys?
Fat birds are great to practice on and the bonus if she is really ugly she will treat you like a GOD and you can almost get her to do ANYTHING at all and i mean anything.
If your horney in a club e.t.c and you knwo you have a guaranteed screw and she is fat and plain, but you think fu** it go for it, you only pleasing sociaty by saying no, also why are you fu**ing her, for you mates or for you?
Stop trying to impress your mates that are going home to flick the wrist when you could have some birds mouth around the main vain.
Obvouisly if she is really ugly then no, but saying that just get a few more beers its all cool.
Better then the alternative put it that way and great to practice your confidence on.
just dont take her out shopping or in public and your fine.
How about you start approaching guys for practice?ziminxe79 said:Would you ever approach a fat girl? Just to practice your skills on them. Not to date them or anything but just see what happans?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just for my curiosity, could you please post a pic link to what you consider a "hot fat chick"?Mr_knowit_all said:I'd bang certain hot fat chicks. But you guys have to understand something, some HOGs have high self esteem. These fatties think they're the ****. So neg hitting would probably not be a bad idea. Or you could offer them fudge and cookies....
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Espi said:With beer goggles, anything's possible..they'll blow you in the club parking lot...nothing worng with that...
Sober, I don't approach fat girls, even if she's rich like Starr Jones![]()
Right...Mr_knowit_all said:In case you haven't noticed, Starr isn't fat anymore......Now how she got that way is up for debate....
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.