You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DJ_in_making said:I was JUST thinking of that. I was wondering what would be the best approach. ****y/Funny + Negging and all that works well w/ chicks w/ high self esteem so that's out of the question. If you compliment her she may not believe it or your attainability may seem too high for her. Well.... thank God I don't have to worry about them.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Vulpine said:Yes.
Fat chicks have hot friends.
ziminxe79 said:Would you ever approach a fat girl? Just to practice your skills on them. Not to date them or anything but just see what happans?
jonwon said:i have slept with fat girls and enjoyed all of em, slept with HB too!
but the saying is you can have 1 fat bird too many.
Fact is fat birds are perfect for bosting skills, you have more chances of success.
Also consider this, if every low confidence guy out there only had the balls to chat fat chicks up, then how many hot babes are being approached.
Annwer this: how many GL guys do you know lack confidence and only game birds they fell comfortable in gaming and are usually lower standered then they are. I know a hell of a lot!
So in that could it be percieved only the truly confident are gaming hot chicks whislt the rest are gaming average, so in that is it not safe to say average bird are getting more F**k time from guys?
Fat birds are great to practice on and the bonus if she is really ugly she will treat you like a GOD and you can almost get her to do ANYTHING at all and i mean anything.
If your horney in a club e.t.c and you knwo you have a guaranteed screw and she is fat and plain, but you think fu** it go for it, you only pleasing sociaty by saying no, also why are you fu**ing her, for you mates or for you?
Stop trying to impress your mates that are going home to flick the wrist when you could have some birds mouth around the main vain.
Obvouisly if she is really ugly then no, but saying that just get a few more beers its all cool.
Better then the alternative put it that way and great to practice your confidence on.
just dont take her out shopping or in public and your fine.
How about you start approaching guys for practice?ziminxe79 said:Would you ever approach a fat girl? Just to practice your skills on them. Not to date them or anything but just see what happans?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Just for my curiosity, could you please post a pic link to what you consider a "hot fat chick"?Mr_knowit_all said:I'd bang certain hot fat chicks. But you guys have to understand something, some HOGs have high self esteem. These fatties think they're the ****. So neg hitting would probably not be a bad idea. Or you could offer them fudge and cookies....
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Espi said:With beer goggles, anything's possible..they'll blow you in the club parking lot...nothing worng with that...
Sober, I don't approach fat girls, even if she's rich like Starr Jones![]()
Right...Mr_knowit_all said:In case you haven't noticed, Starr isn't fat anymore......Now how she got that way is up for debate....
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.