revolutionnow
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Just read neils strauss latest book and would love to know your opinions on this lifestyle
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Would you ever agree with being in an open realtionship or aka swinger!
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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That sounds like being a vegan but granting himself meat once in a while...whats the point of being vegan then?
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This is getting off topic, but it depends on why you are a vegan. If you have no moral objection to eating meat, but are instead following a vegan diet for health reasons, a little meat on occasion is not likely to hurt you.
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Well I meant the other meaning, I should have not used the vegan example.
You know when someone feels sick on the street and people scream if theres a medic around only to hear someone say "Im vegan", well thats the kind of people you want to leave alone.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Would you go down on your girlfriend after another man ejaculates in her?
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I would not. Nor would I go down on her after I ejaculate in her. Cream pies are for comedy routines, not a meal.
Of course, I wouldn't go down on a woman who was menstruating, had a nasty yeast infection or a host of other pelvic centered maladies.
But that's just me.....
Do we have any choice? Unless you find a virgin and you marry her, she will be with other men.
Note that we have 3 types of sperm: egg seeking sperm, wall building sperm and sperm fighting sperm. It would appear other men before us dealt with this issue also.
My date last night is married but told me it is an open marriage. I don't really like it to be honest, but she's only 20 and working as a stripper now (thanks to him not supporting her), so I'm not going to kick her out of bed to f*ck the cat.
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No - what the question poses is would you go down on your girlfriend, right after another man ejaculates in her. Big difference
My last date is married. She told me they have an open relationship (after f*cking me). Do you think she respects him? I would lose respect for her also, but she is only 20 so he messed up marrying a girl that young and beautiful.
She comes with one strike though, cheating on husband. Huge red flag. Given the age, it's 95% likely to not last anyway. She is a Scorpio, bisexual, beautiful, about to turn 21, and a stripper. All are inherently untrustworthy in general.
She comes with one strike though, cheating on husband. Huge red flag. Given the age, it's 95% likely to not last anyway. She is a Scorpio, bisexual, beautiful, about to turn 21, and a stripper. All are inherently untrustworthy in general.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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That is quite a toxic blend of womanhood all wrapped up in that one. Wow. Spoiled before her sell-by date. Pity.